yukikagone-deactivated20210715:

“pansexuality was coined as a direct response to transphobia in the lgbt community”

okay… cool intentions… still redundant. there was absolutely no need to create a brand new sexuality just bc there were transphobic bisexuals. there are trans bisexuals. i am one of them. and i am telling you that a SMARTER way to combat this transphobia was to do it IN the community itself rather than distance yourself from it.

in doing that, you have effectively framed bisexuality as regressive and restrictive and pansexuality as progressive and inclusive. every fucking community has transphobes in it. there are transphobic lesbians and transphobic gays. the way you deal with it is you ostracize THEM from the community. you make sure they know they’re wrong and they aren’t welcomed. you don’t fucking ostracize yourself and make a new fun little club to prove how woke you are. you don’t leave the rest of US in the aftermath to pick up the pieces.

bisexuality is not inherently transphobic and to claim so bc of the whole bi equals two shit erases the history of trans bisexuals in this community. pansexual as a label was literally not needed and it has done irreparable damage to us. you’ve painted this image that pansexuals are more accepting and they don’t look at gender or looks and they don’t have a preference and shit like how do you think that makes bisexuals look? you thought you were doing trans ppl a fucking favor but the only thing you did is make us a fucking trophy you can put on your wall and pat yourself on the back for. go fuck yourselves.